This manual was developed for use when your child discloses sexual abuse.

The information applies to sexual abuse in a family-like situation, which is called incest, and to sexual abuse outside of the family, which is often referred to as extrafamilial abuse.

You will find that the wording of this manual occasionally refers to mothers, because mothers are usually the primary caregivers for their children. It is not our intent to exclude fathers, foster parents or other caregivers. We wish to recognize all caregivers of children as partners in the healing and recovery process.

The purpose of this manual is to empower you with information. You are encouraged to use some of it or all of it, at your own pace and when you are emotionally ready. In our work with sexually abused children and their families we are continually inspired by and reminded of the importance of your involvement in your child's recovery.

This manual is not intended to take the place of or replace professional helping services, but to assist and support you in the day-to-day role only a caregiver can provide.

Funds that made this manual possible were provided by a grant from the Dane County Commission on Sensitive Crimes. We want to thank members of the Commission on Sensitive Crimes for their support and faith in parents as partners in their child's healing process.

The Rainbow Project Child and Family Counseling and Resource Clinic Madison, WI 53703